I
am a lifelong believer in women. My
mother was one. My wife is one. My three daughters are too. My grandmothers
were women as well. By now you have my point - Creatures known as “women” run
in my family. In some cases they
actually ran the family.
I'll
give you one example of this: My paternal grandfather, Thomas F. Reilly, was a
wealthy contractor (referred to in one local newspaper as “the tyrannical old
Irish land baron”). He may or may not have been as the paper described him.
However, when I marched down to see him dressed in my very first long-pants
suit, he pulled a “magic” act on me by fishing out dollar bills, or more, from
each of my pockets. For a 12 year old kid in the middle of the Great
Depression, there was a lot to love about a tyrannical land baron.
Notwithstanding this he once crossed verbal swords with my grandmother, the
formidable Katherine Soden Reilly, who reminded him “Tom Reilly, I was born at
the top of the hill!” So much for the pecking order back in the Emerald
Isle.
But
after laying this foundation about women, where do we go from here? Who knows?
Any man who thinks he knows all there is about women should probably go
to Washington, D. C. where insanity is so much in vogue. All I can give you here, dear reader, is the narrow
perspective of one man born of woman.
Which simply put is: women are pretty terrific, but not perfect, whereas
men are simplicity itself, abounding in shortcomings, but basically happier
souls. When is the game on? Who wants a
brew? Are there any chips?
It
is probably better that we have both men and women in this world. Some guys want to become women but the
reasoning for this is above my pay grade.
If you are interested in exploring the matter, you can always go to The
New York Times and confuse yourself further. The Times devotes an inordinate
amount of editorial space to the question(s) of the sexes and spin-offs of
same. My view is somewhat cynical on The Times prioritization - they need a
break from their drumbeat on the Pope, Vatican and all things Jewish.
In
sum, I'm a fan of womanhood. I've always
found their “instincts” to be on the mark.
They are weak when they should be, stronger in times of sadness and most
of all, best able to triumph over the “joy of childbirth”. On the latter point alone they'll always get
my vote.
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